The Shechina - Mother Principle

On pesach hosting and not feeling noticed.
I knew this is ego.
Where do I go with this?
Whats the message?
How many times do I lose consciousness of hashem?
That took away my pain.
I didn’t say anything.
I felt the pain of not being noticed

Take the ego space and transformed it to the message.
This is happening
FOR ME
NOT TO ME

Placing a bandaid on the pain, and I didn’t have to be reactive
It was a message for me 

SEE THE SHECHINA PRESENCE
go to the space of seeing the light

I was hurt as the dismissed mother
that I was working so hard

I recognized the shechina principle
The mother principle
NEVER GETS DIMINISHED
Because shes the presence OF THE SHECHINA

We are conditioned
If the children didn’t help me that im diminished

Multifaceted to do the work
And a reminder to see ourselves as the highest being as how we see ourselves

It helped me hold the MOMENT WITH GRACE AND DIGNITY
I didn’t have to make the comment
Hello! I’m here too!
HOW OFTEN HAVE YOU IGNORED THE SHECHINA PRESENCE?

our default is more in the negative
We may feel diminished before celebration
When you are taught, with the knowledge YOU RISE

For the diminishment
happens by default

THE MOTHER PRINCIPLE

 I looked after them
And gave them their yomtov
Feeling good about about the experience

there are 3 levels (applicable to both birth, yomtov etc)
it was painful
it was what it was
its was WOW

We would want all to be in the wow category
it doesn’t just land upon us just because we want it

 A feminine principal
To allow ourselves to see ourselves
As all achieving
Whether or not  we ticked all the boxes
Back it up with a generational view

Mother was queen
And yet when it came to anything that demanded her input
She did it with dignity

Some of us tire more easily
Regardless of what we can or cannot do
THE MOTHER OF THE HOME IS THE MOTHER OF THE HOME
LIKE A KOHEIN
Has nothing to do with her ability

The perception of mother can not be diminished
Don’t do the dishes
When we host when we do what we do for our children
We can say
I can do so much and after that I can do so much….

To be in servitude beyond what we can physically endure
Does not bring simcha
Do not be a martyr
Paying the price for the MOMENTARY DISPLAY OF PERFECTION

IM THE MOTHER HERE I COUNT. I GAVE BIRTH TO ALL OF THIS

IM CELEBRATING BEING THE MOTHER. IM BSIMCHA

I have times where I don’t get up
I am gracing my place with my presence
Be authentic

In childbirth
She does it whether she can or cant
There is very little else she has to force hereself to do beyond
her cochos in the moment

She is the shechina.
The mother principle
seeing the light. We know that the light is there.

Doesn’t matter how many cakes she bakes

They respect you
You are taking care of your spirit and position
You are still the mother
smile and converse

No way. the mother is the queen.
Do it humbly

We have to teach our children
So many mothers collapsing over this
Im entitled to this

The children want to have a vacation
BEVAKASHA NOT ON YOUR BONES
PROVIDING WITH FOOD WITH A SMILE
BEDS
BROUGHT EVERYONE TOGETHER

I am not a hotel

I am prepaed to share my home and heart and everyone does their part
I don’t need to be popular

Tiferet she bgevura

Your have to create more boundaries
To rise we need knowledge
To be diminished is the default